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A few days ago, I wrapped a coaching call with a senior executive navigating a complex restructuringwork that demands steadiness in ambiguity, patience when emotions rise, and the discipline to stay grounded while others are spinning. Minutes later, I walked into my kitchen and found my child in a mismatched Halloween costume, eating shredded cheese out of the bag, and crying because her Lego creation was too wobbly to be art. The contrast was sharp, but the underlying lesson was familiar. Parenting and leadership rarely feel similar in form, but they draw on the same internal architecture. Both require influence without force, emotional regulation under pressure, and the ability to create clarity in chaotic, unpredictable environments. Both ask us to decide when to step in, when to step back, and what it means to act with intention instead of urgency. Across my work with senior leaders, and in my own life as a parent, Ive seen these patterns repeat. The skills we associate with leadership are often forged in everyday family life, and the habits that make parenting sustainable often strengthen our leadership. Here are six lessons that cut across both domains. {"blockType":"creator-network-promo","data":{"mediaUrl":"https:\/\/images.fastcompany.com\/image\/upload\/f_webp,q_auto,c_fit\/wp-cms-2\/2025\/03\/acupofambition_logo.jpg","headline":"A Cup of Ambition","description":"A biweekly newsletter for high-achieving moms who value having a meaningful career and being an involved parent, by Jessica Wilen. To learn more visit acupofambition.substack.com.","substackDomain":"https:\/\/acupofambition.substack.com","colorTheme":"salmon","redirectUrl":""}} 1. Emotional steadiness is a leadership skill Composure is often misunderstood as restraint or politeness. In reality, it is the capacity to tolerate emotionyour own and otherswithout reacting impulsively. At home, this can look like staying calm through a meltdown or responding thoughtfully to a childs frustration. At work, it means anchoring your team when uncertainty is high or when interpersonal tensions flare. Across settings, emotional steadiness supports psychological flexibility: the ability to remain centered enough to think clearly, consider options, and choose a productive response. The more leaders practice this, the more they can navigate ambiguity without defaulting to control, reactivity, or avoidance. 2. Clarity beats complexity Parents learn quickly that children thrive with specific expectations and simple instructions. Adults are no different. Leaders often overexplain to project expertise or avoid difficult conversations, but complexity usually obscures rather than illuminates. Clarity requires the discipline to say: Here is what were doing. Here is why. Here is what success looks like. Clear communication reduces cognitive load, increases accountability, and strengthens follow-through. When leaders simplify the path, teams can focus on execution instead of interpretation. 3. Boundaries are care, not control In family life, boundaries allow routines to run, needs to be understood, and conflicts to be resolved without constant negotiation. They protect rest, attention, and relationships. At work, boundaries function similarly. They create predictability, prevent burnout, and help teams focus on what matters most. Many leaders struggle more with boundaries at work than with children at home. Over-functioning often comes disguised as praise: Youre the only one I trust with this. But taking on too much erodes capacity and models unhealthy norms. Boundaries are not barriers; they are structures that support shared responsibility and mutual respect. 4. Repair matters more than perfection Parents inevitably make mistakesraising their voices, rushing through routines, reacting too quickly. The critical practice is repair: circling back, naming what happened, and reconnecting. Repair teaches accountability, empathy, and relational safety. Organizations benefit from the same ethic. Leaders sometimes avoid repair because they fear it signals weakness, but unaddressed ruptures undermine trust. A brief acknowledgmentI want to revisit that; I didnt handle it as well as I could havecan diffuse tension, clarify intent, and rebuild confidence. Repair is the foundation of psychological safety, which drives performance far more reliably than perfection. 5. Autonomy develops courage Watching a child wobble on a bike for the first time is uncomfortable, but it builds resilience. The workplace equivalent is resisting the urge to overmanage. Empowering people to make decisions and learn through experience expands their competence and confidence. Micromanagement, by contrast, signals fearfear of failure, judgment, or loss of control. Autonomy is not abdication. It requires clear expectations, appropriate guardrails, and support when needed. But real leadership involves stepping back enough for others to step forward. Growth happens in the wobble. 6. Purpose lives in the mundane Parenting quickly teaches that meaning is built less through big milestones and more through accumulated micro-moments: answering questions while cooking dinner, revisiting hard conversations, showing up consistently even when enthusiasm is low. Steadiness matters more than spectacle. The same is true in organizational life. Culture is shaped not by strategy decks or keynote speeches but by everyday interactionshow leaders greet people, how they listen, how they give feedback, how they respond on difficult days. Purpose is expressed through small behaviors that signal what the organization values and how people should treat one another. The contexts are different, but the core work is the same. Leadership, in any environment, asks for clarity, steadiness, and intentional action. The setting changes, but the work is the same: stay steady, stay human, and lead with intention wherever you are. {"blockType":"creator-network-promo","data":{"mediaUrl":"https:\/\/images.fastcompany.com\/image\/upload\/f_webp,q_auto,c_fit\/wp-cms-2\/2025\/03\/acupofambition_logo.jpg","headline":"A Cup of Ambition","description":"A biweekly newsletter for high-achieving moms who value having a meaningful career and being an involved parent, by Jessica Wilen. To learn more visit acupofambition.substack.com.","substackDomain":"https:\/\/acupofambition.substack.com","colorTheme":"salmon","redirectUrl":""}}
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Youve decided to start a solo business. Congratulations! Ive been a solopreneur for years and love being my own boss. My decision to become a full-time freelance writer happened overnight. I lost my full-time job at a marketing agency. Looking around, the job market seemed bleak. Working for myself was a way to start earning money immediately to pay bills. However, Id been thinking about a solo business for months. So while the timing wasnt my decision, it was a direction I was headed anyway. {"blockType":"creator-network-promo","data":{"mediaUrl":"https:\/\/images.fastcompany.com\/image\/upload\/f_webp,q_auto,c_fit\/wp-cms-2\/2025\/04\/workbetter-logo.png","headline":"Work Better","description":"Thoughts on the future of work, career pivots, and why work shouldn't suck, by Anna Burgess Yang. To learn more, visit workbetter.media.","substackDomain":"https:\/\/www.workbetter.media","colorTheme":"blue","redirectUrl":""}} I had been freelancing alongside my 9-5 job for a few years, so I had the infrastructure in place to turn my side hustle into a full-time business. What you need on Day 1 is a lot different than what you need on Day 1,001. Here are some of the minimum things you need to get started. 1. Pricing Before you even start talking to potential clients, you need to know what youll charge for your services. Will you charge by the hour? By project? On a retainer? Pricing is one of the hardest things to figure out when you start your own business. You often dont have a good benchmark to know what you should charge compared to other solopreneurs doing similar work. You can start with your salary if you were working full-time at a company. Break it down into an hourly rate (even if youre charging on a per-project basis). Keep in mind that youll also be paying taxes and covering your own business expenses. In addition to determining pricing, youll also need a way to present pricing to a potential client. You might want to consider software that lets you put together polished proposals for clients. Some can even collect e-signatures and payments as an all-in-one tool. But this isnt necessary. You could also put together a proposal in a tool like Canva. Youll also want to have clients sign a contract, agreeing to your pricing and terms. You could pay a lawyer to draw up a contract for you, but thats often cost-prohibitive for new solopreneurs. Instead, you could look for a template that you can modify, or use this free one from the Freelancers Union. 2. A website Im a big advocate for launching a website for your solo business. It doesnt have to be fancy. Mine isntit simply provides some information about my background and the services I offer. It includes a link to my portfolio of work and a Contact Me form. A website, even if its a one-pager, gives your business credibility. It also provides more information than you can showcase on a site like LinkedIn. Ideally, you would connect your website to your own domain. If youve never done this before, it sounds scarier than it actually is. Most website builders will provide step-by-step instructions to connect to a domain you buy from a company like GoDaddy or Cloudflare. If you want to take it a step further, you can connect your domain to Google Workspace so that your email address is @yourdomain.com. However, Google Workspace isnt free. If youre not ready to pay for it, you can always connect your domain to your email later. 3. An invoicing and payment tool My first invoices were created in Google Sheets. I was lucky that my clients paid me via check, because otherwise, Im not sure how I would have collected payments. Youll want to make it easy for clients to pay you, in the method of their choosing. Some may want to send you a bank transfer, while others want to use a credit card. Ive even worked with companies outside of the U.S. and needed to collect international payments. Payment should never be a point of friction. Some tools provide invoicing, payment, and accounting all in one. Or, you can use a standalone product like Stripe to create invoices and collect payments. Platforms like Stripe will charge you a fee (a percentage of the invoice), but they will handle the payment processing for you. They collect money from the client using whatever payment method the client choosesand then send it to your bank account. 4. A plan to find clients Once you have the foundational things in place (pricing, a website, and invoicing/payment), you can start to think about how youll find clientsor how theyll find you. This is not a single-day activity. Everything else Ive mentioned can be pretty quick to set up. Marketing yourself is a long-term strategy. When I first started freelancing full-time, I was desperate for work (Id just lost my job!). I spent a lot of time on LinkedIn. I joined several Slack communities and networked with potential clients. I was a guest on podcasts to get my name out into the world. Effective tactics will depend on the services you offer, but youll need to do some hustling to find your first few clients. Your approach will likely evolve as your business grows. What worked for me in my first few months looks very different now. Over time, I learned which clients and projects aligned best with my skills and servicesand which ones didnt. Starting a solo business can feel overwhelming at first, especially in the early days. However, you get to design and build something thats fully your own. Start with the foundation you need on Day 1, and youll figure out the rest as you go. {"blockType":"creator-network-promo","data":{"mediaUrl":"https:\/\/images.fastcompany.com\/image\/upload\/f_webp,q_auto,c_fit\/wp-cms-2\/2025\/04\/workbetter-logo.png","headline":"Work Better","description":"Thoughts on the future of work, career pivots, and why work shouldn't suck, by Anna Burgess Yang. To learn more, visit workbetter.media.","substackDomain":"https:\/\/www.workbetter.media","colorTheme":"blue","redirectUrl":""}}
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Earlier this year, TikTokers declared the start of the Great Meme Depression of 2025. In the months since, things havent picked up much. As 2026 approaches, some internet users have decided to take matters into their own hands rather than risk yet another year of AI slop and brainrot humor. Its time to take it back to 2016. The Great Meme Reset of 2026 was first proposed by TikTok creator joebro909 in a video from March, according to KnowYourMeme, in the thick of The Great Meme Depression. In the clip, he suggested that all memes be wiped from memory in an effort to rescue TikTok from the drought. In September, TikTok creator golden._vr took up the call, proposing a time and a date for what they dubbed, The Great Meme Reset. “The last resort for memes,” the video’s caption read. “The Great Meme Reset. December 31st, 2025, 11:59. Memes are rising from the grave.” Since then, internet users have been reup0ping classic memes, like Nyan Cat and Harambe, made popular before TikTok was even a glint in millennials eye, thus wiping clean the last decade of internet culture. With Elon Musk threatening to bring back Vine but in AI form and a new six-second app backed by Twitter co-founder Jack Dorsey reviving more than 100,000 archived Vine clips, now seems as good a time as ever to introduce such classics as FRE SH VOCADO” and Damn Daniel to the youth of today. Everything old is new again. The appeal of a return to an internet undiluted by AI slop is undeniable, but is 2010 humor really so much better than the brainrot trends of today? Awkward Turtle and Annoying Orange just dont hit the same in the cold light of 2025. With the rapid pace of the meme cycle these days (who even remembers the Conclave memes earlier this year?!), the pull of nostalgia for a time where memes evolved at a slower pace is strong. Yet, the algorithm marches onwards, in some cases eating itself in its insatiable demand for viral content. Trying to force it backwards is futile. Inevitably, The Great Meme Reset Of 2026 will soon meet the same fate as Evil Kermit and Big Chungus before it. Its the circle of life.
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